Age: 52
Location: Kansas City, Missouri
Can you share a role model or figure who has inspired you as a Black man, and how have they influenced your personal growth and aspirations?
My father instilled leadership, social, and communication skills, the importance of gaining respect by giving respect, my work esthetic, and my enterprising spirit. He taught in words but more importantly in deed how to be a father who provides so much that it would take years to name everything.
What does being a black man mean to you personally, and how does it shape your experiences and perspectives?
Being a Black man is regal, royalty-strong, and charismatic, but also hunted, misunderstood, targeted, and lovely. But even with all of those differences of emotions we still rise to do it all over again daily.
Can you share a significant moment or experience that has profoundly affected your identity as a Black man?
Being a Black man is regal, royalty-strong, and charismatic, but also hunted, misunderstood, targeted, and lovely. But even with all of those differences of emotions we still rise to do it all over again daily.
How do you navigate the complexities of masculinity and vulnerability as a Black man in today's society?
Never willing to compromise my masculinity for absolutely nothing and my vulnerability is reserved for those in my very small circle of trust. Although those two dynamics of emotions are the source of the skill set, we teach in our mentoring.
How do you prioritize self-care and mental health in a world that often overlooks the well-being of Black men?
At one time in life, it was a struggle but as I grew into who I was created to be I understood I am no good at comedy, radio, television, movies, or mentoring until and unless I take time out for myself to get proper rest exercise and recreation.
What challenges do you face as a Black man in your career or professional life, and how do you overcome them?
Simply the same unfortunate ignorance of whether can he professionally handle himself, whether will he speak in slang or professionally, will an entourage show up with him. From other Black people always wanting the hookup or trying to lowball my price in negotiations of contracts lol.
What are your thoughts on the current state of social justice movements and their impact on the lives of Black men in society?
Hopefully, I don't get backlash but I'm tired of black women and men falling for the okie doke, of being pitted against each other over who gets hit by Massa's societal whip. Neither of us is treated fairly in wages, health care physical or mental so until we understand that the Black man and woman are not opponents but teammates, we'll never see the black man rise as king to lead his beautiful black queen.
How do you define success and fulfillment as a Black man, and how has this definition evolved?
Hmm, this is subjective so remember while reading this, I'm giving my views, lol. Success, as for this Black man at 52, is all my children have their own (employed, home, car,) and I'm able to have a variety of choices of what I drive, wear, and eat. Now beyond that shallow surface... People value my words, so much that they pay to hear them, tune in daily to hear what I'll say next, and drive to drop off their children to be filled with information I have to share. I know that I am from strong black elders and ancestors and that I am a very favored child of God.
How do you see the portrayal of Black men evolving in mainstream media and popular culture, and what changes would you like to see in the representation of Black masculinity?
Stop trying to incorporate others' cultures as our own obviously, they're stealing ours. Stop villainizing straight black men as toxic masculinity and accept them as trying to accomplish in our community what we've been called out for the lack of doing which is to support, teach, provide, and protect if we are allowed to do this then all facets of our community will prosper, the only masculine toxicity is to prevent a man from being masculine by making shameful.
In what ways do you challenge stereotypes and misconceptions about Black men, and how do you promote positive narratives about your identity?
Get to know people as people, not as a black man but as a man, neighbors, coworkers, church members, and school teachers. Stop allowing fear of racism to keep you from seeing a man who has a love for his family, community, wellness, and safety just like you who just happens to be a strong Black King.
How do you envision the future for Black men in society, and what do you hope to see in terms of progress, equality, and empowerment for the community?
I like to see us love ourselves first, we have to see the value in that before it'll be projected for the world to see.
Can you share a personal achievement or moment of pride that exemplifies your resilience and determination as a Black man?
My achievement is constantly striving to become the best version of myself.
How do you stay connected to your cultural roots and heritage, and in what ways do you celebrate and preserve your identity as a Black man?
By continuing to mentor and support the community I grew up in and the surrounding areas.
How do you navigate dating and relationships as a Black man, considering societal expectations and stereotypes that may influence perceptions of masculinity?
I just do me and let others have what is best for them.
What qualities do you value most in a partner, and how do you prioritize communication and emotional intimacy in your relationships?
Communication is key it's like the structure of the house if it's weak and ignored then soon the house falls.
How have your past experiences in relationships, both positive and negative, shaped your views on love, commitment, and partnership as a Black man?
Yes, it showed me that I will and will not tolerate any red flags automatically.
What advice would you give to young Black men who are navigating their own identities and experiences in a world that may not always value their perspectives?
Find what has worked for you to this point, hold on to it, let go of that which hinders your elevation no matter how good it feels or how fun it is.
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